Don’t let excuses block your path to happiness
So. You’re thinking of doing something that’s difficult. Or perhaps you think it’s impossible, or that it won’t be particularly successful.
Maybe it’s something you have to do, even if you don’t want to do it. Either way, you’re having trouble figuring out how on earth to do it.
You come up with an objection. There’s this “thing” in the way and that’s why it won’t work. Maybe someone offers a solution; you might even think of your own. But then there’s another “thing” in the way, another roadblock. And the longer you sit there, dreading doing it (or dreading that it won’t work), the less you’re inclined to try.
Instead, you keep coming up with one obstacle after another. And the hours and the days keep ticking along right past you.
Still, it needs to be done, or you really want it to be done, but nothing has changed, although you do have a lovely selection of obstacles, roadblocks and excuses stockpiled for future reference.
There will always be a reason not to do something. Whether you want to find it or not, there will always be yet another potential problem standing between you and a difficult challenge.
It won’t get easier if you drag your heels. It will only grow in your imagination, becoming much more of a mountain than a molehill and the longer you put it off, the more difficult it will seem.
I was always one to encourage my children to try something new. When they hesitated, unsure about whether or not they could do a particular thing, I asked, “How will you know unless you try?”
That seemed reasonable to them and all of them would try without another thought – and usually with very positive results. All except for one of them, that is. For some reason, one of my sons would always say, “I can’t!” before he tried. It took a fair bit of convincing to get him to believe that maybe, juuust maybe, he could.
If no one ever tried anything new, we’d still be sitting around waiting for Thag to chisel a wheel out of a chunk of stone. Sure, there will always be failures but so what? The successes are worth the attempts, and besides, you only fail when you stop trying.
Samuel Johnson summed it up rather nicely: “Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome.”
Exactly. You can sit around and come up with one objection after another, as long as you want to avoid actually doing something. But that’ll never get you anywhere.
Don’t let excuses block your path to progress and success. They’ll only send you down a very miserable detour on a dead-end road.
Written by Liberty Forrest
Award-Winning author and Huffington Post contributor, Liberty Forrest, has written several inspirational books covering a wide range of self-development, healing and empowering topics.
Living in England for many years, she appeared approximately monthly on Sue Marchant’s evening show on BBC Radio doing psychic phone-ins for listeners. She also did stage work as a medium, connecting audience members with loved ones in spirit.
With a background in social work and counselling, Liberty uses a highly creative, multifaceted approach to helping people overcome obstacles and move into a place of empowerment and connection with their Highest Selves.