Can We Improve Our Self Esteem At Any Age?
Can We Improve Our Self Esteem At Any Age? Self-esteem knows no barriers and it’s available to each and every one of us at... Can We Improve Our Self Esteem At Any Age?

Can We Improve Our Self Esteem At Any Age?

Self-esteem knows no barriers and it’s available to each and every one of us at any time in our life.

Personally myself i believe self esteem hinges greatly upon our willingness to become rigorously honest with our selves.

I mean how can you possibly have self esteem if you are not honest. If you can’t trust yourself you certainly can’t trust others and it’s that trust factor that plays a huge role in developing and maintaining self esteem.

Now that my opinion – for another opinion please read the following article.

 

Overcoming Insecurity and Low Self Esteem

To build self confidence and overcome low self esteem is to change how we feel emotionally about ourselves. To change our emotion requires changing two different core beliefs about self image. The first core belief is obvious. It is the belief that we are not good enough. It may have a more specific association to how we look, how smart we are, money, or lack of confidence sexually. The second core belief to change is the image of success that we feel we should be. Changing this belief is contrary to logic, but is a must if we are to overcome insecurity and raise our self esteem.

When your mind has an image of success that you “should be” it associates happy emotions with that picture. I call that the image of perfection in our mind. The mind does a comparison between the image of perfection and how you see your self image currently. The comparison results in judgment and self rejection for not meeting the image of perfection. The self rejection results in feeling unworthy and of low self esteem

While the image of perfection appears to be a way for us to feel good about ourselves, it is actually causing us to reject ourselves which creates feelings of “not being good enough.” If you were to dissolve the belief that you should fit into the image of perfection you would eliminate the self rejection and feelings of unworthiness that result.

Feelings of confidence and security means no self rejection.

The approach of dissolving our image of perfection sounds contrary to our sense of logic about building confidence and esteem. This is because we have the belief that achieving the image of perfection will result in positive happy emotions and feeling confident with our success. Our mind has actually been programmed to have these emotional associations. We desire to feel these feelings and chase the image of perfection we have attached to them.

What we may not be aware of is that achieving our image of success doesn’t effectively change our emotional state. It doesn’t do anything to permanently change the way the voice in our head speaks to us or what we believe about ourselves. Many times people have achieved their goals only to find themselves still unfulfilled. Your emotional state may briefly change in the euphoria if the immediate success. But the core belief of not being good enough and your long term habit of self rejection in the mind hasn’t been altered. The critical voice in our head is more likely to…

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Overcoming Insecurity and Low Self Esteem

 

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